What shoes should I wear to the wedding?

Im going to my friends' wedding. My dress is knee length, a turqoise, blue, white and black combo...it has a large swirl type pattern with the colors. It has a high waist and flows away from the body. Its silky material and spaghetti straps which I am going to wear a cardigan over. The waist band part is black so I want to wear black shoes. I am not sure if i should wear plain black ballet flats or black strappy high heels?? I think the heels make it look a little skanky--but the flats make it too casual...im not sure.

What shoes should I wear to the wedding?
wear a pair of peep toe heels. the flats will make your legs look short, especially with a dress, and are not dressy enough.. and the strappy ones arent flattering or in style. here are a few links...


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http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2945455/0~23...





dont be afraid to spend a little extra on a nice pair of shoes. its totally worth it!!! especially when it comes to a pair of classy black pumps!! hope this helped!!
Reply:High heels for sure......sometimes its not the shoes that make a women look "skanky" it is how she carries herself





...with that said, find a shoe with a low but skinny heel so that you feel comfortable. It should be open toe, in black or even turquoise with an embellishment on it (like rhinestones) to make you look even more elegant.





Wear natural looking makeup with a little light blue eyeshadow and wear your hair up neatly (again, to add elegance to the look)......smile and have a great time.
Reply:No no.. there are some really nice dressy flat shoes in silk at Payless Shoes for reasonable prices...About the black strappy high heel, I do not know about that.. The plain black high heel shoes would work okay too, while you are it, I think it's most important thing to wear something really comfortable,maybe a black low heel shoes- because you might stand up lot of times at the wedding. Have you ever thought about it..
Reply:Heels for sure. If you go with a pump (thick heel) rather than a pair of stilettos, you should not look the least bit skanky. Any of the big shoe websites (shoes.com, zappos.com, etc.) have a search by color function for shoes. You can match any one of the colors in your dress to a classy pair of shoes at those sites.
Reply:Depends. Are you going to walk around and dance a lot? In that case, flats might be more comfortable. But the flats probably should be those glossy kinds. Strappy high heels work if their thin heels and aren't one of those lace up types (meaning they lace around your legs).
Reply:There are some black heels that aren't "hooker heels" but still look fairly dressy. I am wearing some now actually.





Check out:





These look less skanky: http://www.zappos.com/images/731/7317766...





than these:


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Reply:Black heels open toe sling backs
Reply:Id go with black heels. Maybe not strappy ones though. :)
Reply:High Heels
Reply:High heels of coruse not shoes!
Reply:Don't do such a "strappy" heel. definitely heels!!!!!
Reply:Something that shows your feet of course. But not black
Reply:I would wear the heels for sure.... Heels are so classy.... Enjoy the wedding.......
Reply:white. DONT wear black. its 4 funerals
Reply:high heels!
Reply:id got with the strappys.


and the dress ounds really cute!
Reply:the strappy heels are way better. But if you feel skanky, why not borrow a friend's shoes for the day?



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