What kind of shoes do you wear at a funeral?

well my grandmother passed away on Monday and im trying to find something to wear....i wanna wear dressy/casual pants but if i do, i have to wear pumps...my mom is so dumb, she just says to wear my puma sneakers and shes not buying me shoes, i freaking hate her

What kind of shoes do you wear at a funeral?
The only thing I would suggest as far as shoes, would be to not wear pumps that have a thin/skinny heel if you are attending a cemetary burial; sometimes the ground is soft and/or wet and your heels may sink.
Reply:i'm very sorry about your grandmother. wear ballet flats, but nothing in a bright color that attracts too much attention. stay as completely modest as possible.
Reply:i think u should wear something that she liked you in ... so if she liked u in jeans and a tshirt , wear that .





sorry about ur loss
Reply:Im so sorry about your grandmother =[


But, one of my aunts died last year, and i just wore balck pants and black ballet flats with a green top. The ballet flats were not expensive at all, maybe 15-20$$ i dont remember. These would look great with casual/dressy pants.
Reply:yeah, ive had this same problem because i kinda stick to one pair of shoes. if you have a friend or something that you can borrow a pair of flats from, that would be ideal, otherwise where the pumps. im sorry about your loss.
Reply:You shouldnt hate your mom just because she won't buy you shoes.





Just wear your pumas when my aunt died last year i wore my black circas to her funeral. Pumas are casual shoes.
Reply:Any plain shoe will work. If they are dark pumas, they will work.


PS: don't buy clothes for funerals - they will make you sad later. And don't chew out MOM - she is not happy either, even if it is her MIL, instead of Mom.
Reply:Tell your mom to buy you shoes with a low heel. No patent leather or colors. Plain black leather kitten heels are good. And for heels...you don't want to interrupt the priest when he's in the middle of the funeral to go to the bathroom, right?



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